HOW TO TELL MY MOM 'BOUT DAT GUY?

Your parents are 100% responsible for taking care of you, feeding you, housing you, protecting you, and they pay all of the bills at home. So, please do tell them that you are dating that guy.

However,u hv to cnsider this: Do you think that kids at age 11 should be allowed to drive a car on the public roads with the rest of the adults?
No, me either. Driving a car is very dangerous, and it requires responsibility and good judgement.

The JPJ gets to decide how old a person must be to get a driver's license.[JPJ urgh???i'm not really sure.i just put JPJ there]Just like driving a car, dating is also an ADULT ACTIVITY. It requires responsibility and good judgement. So, your parents get to decide when you can start dating. ISN'T?[HAHA.. when i strat dating,ea???]They might ask you to hold off on the dating for a while.Just because you haven’t talked much to your parents about boys doesn’t mean you can’t talk to them about boys, or whatever other issues are concerning you. Your parents would probably like to discuss things with you… so take the initiative.

Here are some examples of both good and bad methods of communicating with your parents…Bad:"Hey… Bee, Cee, and Dee are already dating and kissing. I wanna date too!!""I'm mature enough to date!!!""Stop treating me like a baby!!!"Then stamp your feet, storm off to your room, slam the door, and pout for the rest of the day.[obviously u r so rude to ur parents,then..take a hammer n hit ur head to tight up the loosed nail in ur head]
Good:"Dad, can you tell me about how you and Mom first met? What did you do on your first date?"Hey Mom… is it OK that I’ve been out with dat guy a few times? You can meet him, and you’ll see he’s really nice."[u should practise this at home yeah!!]

Listen to your parent's input. Don't respond immediately to their comments… sit there for a few seconds and then say "Wow, that's good… thanks!"Your parents know that there are some guys out there (young and old) who will tell a nice girl that he loves her, just to see how far she will let him go with her body. Guys out there who are ready and willing to use you and your body for their own selfish pleasure... and then leave... breaking your heart in the process, and possibly leaving you pregnant... Your parents want to make sure that you are old enough and mature enough when dating to recognize these losers, and say "No"